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Whether it is true or not that women will only try anal sex twice, apparently once to see what the fuss is about and a second time to see if it still hurts as much. What is true is that you will either love it or hate it. I loved my first experience at anal sex, but unfortunately I was so carried away by the moment that I forgot to use any lube. I was OK, as my pussy was so wet, I didn’t actually feel any pain. This is however not advisable behavior and lube should always be used.

Although I only ever had anal sex with my ex-husband – for me this is a very personal experience. Not for lack of being asked however, really just from shyness.

One boyfriend I had was really into anal and I have no idea why I said no, he was sticking his big brown cock into just about every other orifice in my body – I guess I just didn’t feel comfortable enough with him to get that intimate. Shit is a whole other story and not really something you want to smear all over the cock of someone you hardly know.

Also I have to admit I like a guy with a big cock and this boyfriend had just that, whereas my ex was quite a small man, so the possibility exists that I was also quite afraid of pain perhaps. The boyfriend after him who asked be for anal sex was also a big boy and although we dated for 10 years, we never quite got there, he also admitted he was afraid he might tear me in two, me being 4"11" and him being 6"2" with the cock to match his height.

Emotionally there is nothing wrong with being afraid of having anal sex especially if you practice with an I Plug. There is nothing wrong with being afraid of having any kind of sex in fact. Although remember Freud said the only bad sex is no sex. But you should never allow anyone to coerce you into having anal or any kind of sex if you don’t want it. This is just not right!

Last Modified: September 10th, 2010
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