My First Vibrator Helped to Make My Marriage Complete

22 May 10

My First Vibrator Helped to Make My Marriage Complete

It was only when I bought my first vibrator that I realize what had been missing in my marriage. This small thing helped make my marriage complete - it is amazing what an orgasm or two can do, and how much female toys help.

Marriage is not only about the marriage of minds, it is about out bodies and souls also. Women are expected to understand and cherish these factors today. They are no longer expected to lie back like a concubine and not complain and participating fully in a marriage can be its making.

Total intimacy does not only mean sex and trust, but these factors play a large role in contributing to complete intimacy.

I came across female toys completely by accident when a work colleague at another company sent me and invitation by email to an adult party plan party she was planning. Not having any idea what this was about, I agreed to attend.

When I arrived at her home that Saturday, a lot of ladies had arrived before me and the atmosphere was thick with excitement. I still didn’t know what it was all about so Bev explained in and to be frank I was quite nervous.

She was right.

When the lady arrived and started unpacking all her goods, I have to admit I was fascinated. She gave a good and amusing talk and actually was very good at her job, explaining how her experience with female toys and potions saved her marriage. It was then I became concerned that my orgasm was definitely missing from my marriage.

My husband and I had spoken about it, but both being a bit ignorant about the importance of mutual fulfillment, had not really allowed it to bug us or pursue it any further.

The bullet vibrator was her suggestion, she said it wouldn’t be intimidating to either my husband or my self and I purchased a waterproof model with two bullets, a French maids outfit for fun and some cherry flavored motion lotion.

When I shared all this information with my husband, he was very open and also really excited for my package to arrive. This was the first of many similar brown paper packages we have opened together and he sometimes say why don’t you order this or that, so I now have quite a collection. We play together now and sometimes it’s a game of Monopoly, but sometimes its also the police woman locking the bad boy up in handcuffs with no get out of jail free card we love Adult Party Plan.