It is a traditionally held belief that women will only try anal sex twice, once to see what it is like and a second time to see if it was really as bad as the first time. This is something you either love or hate. My first experience at anal sex – I loved, but we are not all made of the same stuff. I didn’t even think to use lube as this was a spur of the moment thing, but the suggestion is that anyone doing anal sex at any time, should use lube.
I know my life isn’t over and the chance may come my way again, but I only ever had anal sex with my ex hubby, probably because for me, this is a very intimate act.
Not for the lack of anyone asking me, I have had a couple of boyfriends who have wanted to delve into the darkest area of my nether regions. Quite simply because I have said no, but life isn’t over when anal sex is over, just as life isn’t over if you don’t have sex. I have weird ideas about my pooper being my business and no-one else’s.
Also I have to admit I like a guy with a big cock and this boyfriend had just that, whereas my ex was quite a small man, so the possibility exists that I was also quite afraid of pain perhaps. The boyfriend after him who asked be for anal sex was also a big boy and although we dated for 10 years, we never quite got there, he also admitted he was afraid he might tear me in two, me being 4"11" and him being 6"2" with the cock to match his height.
There is not one thing with being afraid to have any kind of sex that makes you feel uncomfortable, and there is nothing wrong with saying no; just as there is absolutely nothing wrong with having anal sex althoug a little practise with an I Plug may improve your experience. The only wrong thing is when someone forces or tries to coerce you into doing something you don’t want to do. Some people fit sexually together, others don’t and this is a fact of life, rather say no and don’t risk fitting a square peg into a round hole.
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