Here’s 72 Ways to Spice it Up
Bid adieu to humdrum monotonous sex with this fantastic guide that tells you exactly what you should get. These are 72 tips that will definitely unleash the carnal animal in both you and your partner!
The Real Basics
1. Make sure you get colors right. Colors can set the mood for a great sexual experience. Red is a wonderful color of passion. Set the mood with this color.
2. A research survey done by Masters and Johnson has shown that the outer areas of a woman’s vagina is the highest erogenous zones on her body, so teasing and tasting this area is sure to work up both her and you.
3. Introduce new ideas to your lady, such as having sex in places other than the bedroom. The shower is always a good place to start, then as you both get more adventurous, maybe outdoors?
4. Sexual intercourse in water is an intense experience and one that should not be missed. This can be achieved anywhere, a bathtub, pool or spa. You have seen the scenes in the movies, now it is your turn.
5. Mutual oral sex is a wonderful part of foreplay or even a good substitute for full sex. There are even vibrating toys available that you attach to your tongue enabling you to go that little bit further.
6. The whole process of sex doesn’t have to be just about the intercourse. It can also be a lot of fun and you can learn a lot more about your partner if you involve things like games. There are a lot of great adult board games out there, or just a fun little game of strip poker would do.
7. Are you often left behind during sex? Has your man finished ling before you even reach your highest peak? Here is just one little hint that may help you get there a little quicker. Place a pillow under your lower back, this places the vagina in a much better position.
8. Has it ever crossed your mind to try sex on the washing machine? It should definitely be at the top of your list of things to try. The man should be seated on top of the machine while it is in action, the woman should then sit upon the man, either facing him or away from him.
9. Make sure you put the washing machine on a long wash cycle. You make find it helps to have something heavy in the wash cycle, such as towels as they will cause the machine to move more than it would if empty.
10. If you love your dildo vibrator then sex toys when you are alone, don’t be shy to admit it to your partner. In fact, there are so many interesting ways in which a dildo vibrator can be made an important part of the couple sex adventure. Your man can look at various ways to arouse you through foreplay and a dildo vibrator could be a great sex aid.
11. Conversation is the key to romance and good sex. Don’t turn on the mute button when you are having sex or it makes things too mechanical. Talk about each other’s bodies. Speak about your man’s penis; he likes to hear about what he has. Talk dirty to him; if you do it correctly, most men will love it.
12. An incredibly important part of foreplay is masturbation. This helps your lady’s body to prepare for the act of intercourse, it also gets her incredibly horny. This can be done with either your fingers or a vibrator or dildo.
13. Learn all the scents of your partners body. Slowly travel over her body inhaling the scent as you go, this will have an unbelievable effect on her. She will feel your breath on her body as you journey along her body.
14. Believe it or not, what you eat can have an effect on how your sperm tastes, if you want your woman to enjoy oral sex then you need to make sure you taste good. Try eating things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in.
15. Make sure neither yourself or your partner eat strong smelling foods like onions or garlic otherwise your may find yourself or him put off by the odour.
16. Your man’s diet is very important when it comes to the taste of his sperm, onions, garlic, asparagus, curry and chilli can all have a negative effect to the taste of his sperm.
17. Sex outdoors is always a thrilling experience. Be mindful of the laws though as this act is always frowned upon, which makes it even more exciting. If you are driving home late at night and there is no-one around, how about pulling over the car and having a quickie?
18. If your man is too busy to have sex with you, you can effectively seduce him this way. When he is sitting on his chair, working, get below the table and start licking his cock through his pants. No man can resist that!
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The missionary position is the most used one for a reason, it is comfortable for both parties and enables a man to penetrate deeply.
20. Another reason the missionary position is good is that it enables you to see your partners facial expressions, you will know just how much she is enjoying herself.
21. You could also try just letting your man lie on top of you, face down, when you are lying on a bed on your back. This position allows both of you to feel each other’s bodies to the maximum limit and creates the greatest degree of arousal.
22. Ride your man like a cowgirl. It is a great way to vary your sexual routine and a great way to arouse your man if he feels he is sapped out.
23. If you like anal sex or just want to do something a little different, try doggy style. A man get a much different sensation on his penis in this position.
24. Have you heard of the spoons position? Try it out. This is probably the most non-stressing positions of all. It only requires you and your partner to lie side by side in the form of a spoon and allowing him to penetrate you anally. You could also alternatively take his penis between your legs and masturbate him.
25. The spoons position can also be used for mutual masturbation. Placing your penis between her thighs and rubbing back and forth is sure to excite you both, you will be rubbing against her clitoris as you do this.
Table Manners & Sex!
26. There are many ways in which you can bring food into your sexual act and make things much more interesting. Ice-cream has a great reputation for that. You could try a wonderful experiment by sticking an ice-cream cone over his penis and then licking at the ice-cream on it. He will be totally turned on, for sure!
27. Fruit is also an exotic sex addition. Fresh mangoes can be rubbed on each other. Strawberries can be fed to each other.
28. Try this sexy little bedroom game. Paint 12 squares on your man’s body. Number each square and then put a different item of food in each square. Get him to call out a number and then you have to eat that item without using your hands.
29. One of the most exciting vegetables has to be the cucumber as it has a very phallic look to it. Make sure the cucumber is very cold before using it.
30. Alcohol can do some nasty things as well. Try pouring some on your partner’s body in all the right places and then licking it off. You could try some flavored alcohol to make things more interesting.
31. You might have seen so many movies where couples seduce each other by sliding ice cubes down their bodies. Well, you could try that too. Or, to make things more interesting, you could try sliding down stuff like frozen berries.
32. A good chocolate is better than sex? There is something in this saying as chocolate has a range of chemicals in it which leave a lot of people in a state of bliss. Cheese also surprisingly has a lot of similar chemicals in it. These should definitely be included.
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33. Did you know that a great kick start to any morning sex session is a cereal with almonds and apples? Give it a try.
34. A great mood food to try is avocado.
35. Champagne was mentioned before as something to pour over your lover but it is also good as an aphrodisiac when drinking it. The taste of a kiss with champagne is wonderful as your tongue tingles when you drink it making your tongue extra sensitive.
36. A good hint is to always keep some breath mints handy. You never know when you may find yourself about to kiss someone.
Unleash Passion
37. When it comes to having your woman masturbate you, make sure you tell her exactly what you want as most women think they will hurt their man if they grasp too tight, so if you like it hard and tight let her know.
38. Try giving your man a thrill be deep throating him. This takes a bit of practice but can be enjoyable for you both. Place yourself on your knees in f
39. Most women don’t know how to deep throat. It can be painful and often uncomfortable. If that is how you feel, you could at least rub the head of his penis against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate.
40. You might have heard a lot about licking his cock as though it is candy or something but that’s not always the most ideal way to do it. He would like a little rough touch. You could give him some great rubbing with your lips and even use your teeth very, very gently occasionally. He would like that.
41. If your woman is boring at oral sex and just sucks up and down on your penis, try giving her some lube to rub on your penis so she can slide her hand up and down as she sucks away.
42. Music is a must during sex. It helps to relax you and your partner and also helps you to focus on the task at hand.
43. Don’t be fooled by stories that men don’t like their anuses explored. Most of them do. But you almost always have to be the one initiate it. The best time to do it is when you are giving them oral sex. Slowly slide your smallest finger in his anus and gradually work it inside. Lubricate your finger to do this easily. When it is inside, start wiggling your finger. He will most likely find it highly pleasurable because you are directly targeting his prostate which is highly sensitive.
44. Viewing pornography together before sex can be very arousing. See if you can both sit through a whole movie watching other people fuck without jumping each other.
Carnal Pleasures - Animal Positions
45. Have you heard how gorillas do it? These huge animals actually spend very little time in the actual sexual penetration part of it. But they do have a very long foreplay in which they groom each other. You can do this ritual as well.Have a bath together, get each other all soapy and slippery and so on.
46. Another animal that can teach you a lesson or two is the seal. Seals are known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proved to be a great precursor to sex, because it stimulates blood in the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.
47. Talk about the giant water bug, the male of which can go on asexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused.
Get deep into Your Man’s Mind
48. . When you are using the woman on top position, do a little extra maneuver. Instead of just going up and down as most women do, try going diagonally and sideways as well. This will be really great for your man and you will feel him more inside you. Try it!
49. Have some quick drying alcohol such as vodka ready with you. When you are into the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Then allow the vodka to dry. You could actually assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He is going to enjoy this to no end.
50. If you are too shy to touch your man, go stand behind him, your nipples touching his back. Then bring your hands to his front and touch his cock and nipples and slightly masturbate him. Then gradually increase the force. He will enjoy that immensely.
51. A classical position is the girl wrap position and it is always a hit. You have to be quite athletic for it but it sure is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Ask your lady to keep an item of clothing on, this can lead to huge suspense. Maybe she leaves on an item of underwear or a pair of high heel shoes or boots. Maybe suggest she give you a little striptease and then you tell her to stop before she strips it all off.
53. Another , very nice for you to do is to give him a nice little licking when he is still limp. Just go down and give him some gentle swirls of your tongue and see how he hardens up. This is a great prelude to a wonderful sexual episode. Plus, it will give you more confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.
54. If you want great sexual experiences every time, you will have to work on it. Try some vaginal exercises known as kegels. These exercises make the muscles in your vaginal area tighter, which means a much better sexual experience for both of you.
55. Have you heard about Ben-Wa balls? These are not mere sex toys. If you use them regularly, you can actually make your vagina much harder and sexier.
56. When your lady is performing oral sex, don’t just allow her to please you p with her mouth. The peripheral things that she does are also important. You should use have her use her hands as well. Get her to stimulate your nipples and prostate while she is sucking you. No man can resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex can become extremely important when you cannot have penetrating sex, such as if you are pregnant or having your periods. Try searching for new ways to stimulate your partner through such techniques.
58. It really is a myth that women can orgasm only when they are penetrated. Penetration is actually not important . A man can easily stimulate her G spot or clitoris and bring her to climax. Try educating yourself on how to do this.
59. You can use your bra, stocking or panties to great effect. Just take them off sexily and tie his penis, at the shaft. This will really send him into another world. Now make things more exciting by beginning to tease him all over with your tongue and your fingertips. Keep pulling the garment tighter so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.
60. Kinky is wonderful for most people. Why not give it a try?. Tie your man up, and tease him all over. If he doesn’t like that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.
61. Men who are performing cunnilingus on their female partners, note this—the right movement is to swirl the tongue inside the vagina and then lick upwards. This really stimulates the clitoris.
62. Try making love in front of a mirror, the heightened sensation of watching yourself and your partner in the act is mind blowing.
63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on a camera as well. Just the idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.
64. A wonderful position for oral sex on a female is to have her lay on her side and raise one leg in the air.
65. Why not try massaging each other and then hold each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.
66. Show your man how to find your G-Spot and exactly how to stimulate it to the best effect.
67. Do the dishes naked. And ask your man to go about his normal routine naked too. You won’t know how much you are turning on your partner when you are doing this.
68. Choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Put on some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in before. Then enjoy a candlelit dinner . When he comes over, give him a surprise. It should set the right mood for a night full of fun.
69. Masturbation is important. You should always masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything that is to follow.
70. Don’t only use your hands. although hands are important, you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him.
71. Treat your man to a nice smooth you, have your pubic hair shaved or waxed off.
72. Contact with your partner is the most important thing. Touching each other from head to toe. Discovering each others wants and needs. Enjoy every part of each other. This is what makes sex fantastic.
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